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Post by BelizeanPoet on Feb 26, 2003 14:07:40 GMT -5
A young woman i know came to me crying about and incident that took place about a month ago after a terrific party. She partied with this dude all night whom she had a crush on for the longest time.
Turns out, after the party, she made the decision to accept his invitation for a ride home but i now find out that her ride didnt take her straight home. Instead, they ended up at his place. They had mad sex she claims, sex she enjoyed so much and wanted more of. She fell head over heels for this dude because he had good sex.
Now, a month later she is the talk of her little town and she was one of the last people to know why. Turn sout the dude has her on a videotape and selling copies of the video to anyone who is willing to pay $50.00 for it. She got a first hand view of this tape and was shocked to see all the details of that night, tasks she freely performed while under the influence of alcohol and as some of u say "the harmless weed"
Now you see, that one night of pleasure has turned into a life of pain and embarassment. She has even comtemplated suicide because she cannot live with the outcome of that night.
It was so much fun and enjoyment at the time, but now, her life is a total mess. So, although u may enjoy SEX AFTER PARTIES, THINK BEFORE U ACT PEOPLE, YOUR PAST MAY COME BACK TO HAUNT NAD RUIN YOUR FUTURE. IF YOU LOVE YOURSELVES, BE SMART AND THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTION BEFORE U ACT.
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Post by BelizeanBrownSugar on Feb 26, 2003 15:13:18 GMT -5
Damn, that is messed up.  |
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Post by bemetu on Feb 26, 2003 16:11:31 GMT -5
she need to hire an attorney and file a lawsuit againt that low life . what he did to her is illegal. there is no need for her to be embarassed, she need to hold her head up high and get back at him legally. she need to remember the phrase that "who laugh last laugh the best".
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Post by BelizeanPoet on Feb 26, 2003 19:02:11 GMT -5
Filing a lawsuit here, is so much easier said than done. You'd spend so damn much on lawyer fees and all and still might end up having a case that is thrown out of court. To top it all off, to add to her embarassment, if she goes to court, the media will surely become involved and we all know she'll be branded a s * * t and other demeaning words.
It'll simply be her words against his and trust me he will say he had her permission, he might say he paid her all that sort of thing.
Trying to file a lawsuit in my opinion would simply be adding insult to her injury because only THEN will the whole world be aware of her lil movie.
Whats done is done, she has to live with that, let her be an example to all.
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Post by bemetu on Feb 26, 2003 19:57:42 GMT -5
nothing is wrong with the whole world knowing what she did. her bringing attention to her sexual abuse can put a stop to what this guy and others like him does to females. there are public defenders who would be willing to accept a criminal case such as this one for little to no fee. Belizean poet she can obtain a copy of the tape as evidence, and also the fact that he is making a profit on the tape is also illegal. This is a clear cut case. no need for her to be embarassed. she should be proud of herself for putting this guy in jail.
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Post by BelizeanPoet on Feb 27, 2003 10:00:44 GMT -5
I don’t think it's as easy as u make it look. Like I said before, it'll be her words against his. He can easily say she consented to it. She can obtain a copy of the tape for evidence, evidence of what? That tape doesn’t prove that he did it illegally; it does not prove that he is selling them. She’d have to find someone who would admit to paying this dude for the tape.
Girl, I can say that I would be ashamed if I was involved in a scandal like that and I would want the least amount of people to know about it so if it meant just letting it be, I would. It’s easier to file lawsuits in the US than it is here.
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Post by bemetu on Feb 27, 2003 13:22:30 GMT -5
belizeanpoet where did this incident occur? as a matter of fact it does not matter where the incident occur. good public relation is what this individual need to get her story to the public. if this incident occured in belize that girl should make the public know what that low life did to her. i know of several females in belize who were sexually abused or exploited and kept silent . these individuals suffer alone and eventually self destruct by either becoming prostitutes or drug abusers. victims of sexual abuse needs counseling or someone to advocate on their behalf. i guess i should relocate to belize and start such agency working to put these low life in prison. Belizean poet nothing in this life is easy, but persistence pays off in the long run.  |
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Post by BelizeanPoet on Feb 27, 2003 13:35:29 GMT -5
True bemetu, very true, u gotta be persistent. i dont think i would though, would u? and yeah, it did happen in lil old Belize ma.
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Post by bemetu on Feb 27, 2003 13:42:49 GMT -5
yes belizean poet i most definitely would do what i said. i always practice what i preach .
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Post by BelizeanPoet on Feb 27, 2003 13:45:33 GMT -5
U R STRONG GIRL, I COMMEND YOU ON YOUR COURAGE BUT I THINK ONLY SHE WHO FEELS IT KNOWS SO I GUESSS IT'S UP TO HER TO DO AS SHE FEELS YOU KNOW, I AND OTHERS CAN ONLY GIVE HER ADVICE AND SHE TAKES IT FROM THERE, AND YES, I DID GIVE HER YOUR ADVICE.
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Post by bemetu on Feb 27, 2003 13:51:33 GMT -5
thanks for giving her my advice... tell her not to be embarassed but she needs to be more careful .... the guy could have infected her with the deadly AIDS virus. one night of pleasure is not worth the lifetime of pain.
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zoticgal
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Post by zoticgal on Mar 2, 2003 2:35:35 GMT -5
I agree with bemetu, it does not matter where the incident happen as long as she is fighting it. Winning doesn't matter, but she can voice her story of how this terrible event happened and how she is now being taken advantage of. Personally I think she is being raped publicly. She was under the impression that she was having an intimate moment in private, with a person she trust and liked. Now its on public display. She is beign raped. Not cool.
Most people would say they don't condone violence, but hey, somtimes certain people need a good BUTT KICKING. Do this girl have brothers, cousins, even friends who are boys that can get together and have a very persuasive and physical talk with this guy. They don't have to kill him. Just hurt him a little bit. Break a knee or something.
Just a thought. I'm a peace loving person. But no better way to keep the peace than with a little violent persuasion.
GO USA!
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sunset
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Post by sunset on Jul 16, 2003 14:11:01 GMT -5
I can belive that somthing like that did happen because it has been happening for years. Unfortunatley it had to happen to your friend. But like you said Belizeanpoet this is what happens when you have sex after parties. First of all you really should not be having sex with someone after the first night you meet him. Then people wonder why the have STD's. Not saying that your friend is a S***t but us as women even the men need to start being more careful. LOOK AT EVERY MAN OR WOMEN YOU SLEEP WITH AS A POTENTIAL BABY MAMA OR BABY DADDY. IF YOU WOULD WANT THEM AS THAT THEN CLOSE THEM LEGS AND ZIP IT UP.
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